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childWhat is child abuse?

Child abuse is any action by another person – adult or child – that causes significant harm to a child. It can be physical, sexual or emotional, but can just as often be about a lack of love, care, and attention. We know that neglect, whatever form it takes, can be just as damaging to a child as physical abuse.  An abused child will often experience more than one type of abuse, as well as other difficulties in their lives. It often happens over a period of time, rather than being a one-off event. And it can increasingly happen online.  We estimate that over half a million children are abused in the UK each year.

Types of child abuse

Neglect –  Neglect is the ongoing failure to meet a child’s basic needs. It’s dangerous and children can suffer serious and long-term harm.

Online abuse – Online abuse is any type of abuse that happens on the web, whether through social networks, playing online games or using mobile phones.  A child is sexually abused when they are forced or persuaded to take part in sexual activities. This doesn’t have to be physical contact, and it can happen online

Physical abuse – Physical abuse is deliberately hurting a child causing injuries such as bruises, broken bones, burns or cuts.

Emotional abuse – Children who are emotionally abused suffer emotional maltreatment or neglect. It’s sometimes called psychological abuse and can cause children serious harm.

Child sexual exploitation – Child sexual exploitation is a type of sexual abuse in which children are sexually exploited for money, power or status.

Bullying and cyberbullying – Bullying can happen anywhere – at school, at home or online. It’s usually repeated over a long period of time and can hurt a child both physically and emotionally.

Domestic abuse – Witnessing domestic abuse is child abuse, and teenagers can suffer domestic abuse in their relationships. Read more about domestic abuse

Child trafficking – Child trafficking is a type of abuse where children are recruited, moved or transported and then exploited, forced to work or sold. Read more about child trafficking

Grooming – Children and young people can be groomed online or in the real world, by a stranger or by someone they know – for example, a family member, friend or professional.

Harmful sexual behaviour – Children and young people who develop harmful sexual behaviour harm themselves and others.

Signs, symptoms, and effects of child abuse and neglect

The signs of child abuse aren’t always obvious, and a child might not tell anyone what’s happening to them. Sometimes children don’t understand that what’s happening is abuse.

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Source: NSPCC

Child Pedophiles Predators

When children go online, they have direct and immediate access to friends, family, and complete strangers, which can put unsuspecting children at great risk. Children who meet and communicate with strangers online are easy prey for Internet predators. Predators have easy and anonymous access to children online where they can conceal their identity and roam without limit. Often, we have an image of sexual predators lurking around school playgrounds or hiding behind bushes scoping out their potential victims, but the reality is that today’s sexual predators search for victims while hiding behind a computer screen, taking advantage of the anonymity the Internet offers.

“People who do not believe that their children could ever become victimized online are living in an unrealistic world.  Regardless of if your child makes ‘As’ or not, that child has the potential to become victimized through online technologies.  I think it is very important for parents of all socioeconomic status and with all different roles in society to take this problem very seriously.”  Melissa Morrow, Supervisory Special Agent, Child Exploitation Squad, FBI

Predators Access to Kids

The anonymity of the Internet provides the perfect camouflage for a seasoned predator to operate. The predator’s knowledge of certain teenage subjects is as accurate as his or her calculated ability to speak teens’ online lingo. Offline, pedophiles have typically operated in isolation. Never before have pedophiles had the opportunity to communicate so freely and directly with each other as they do online. Their communication on the Internet provides validation—or virtual validation—for their behavior. They share their conquests, real and imagined. They discuss ways to contact and lure children online and exchange tips on seduction techniques, as well as tips on the avoidance of law enforcement detection.

What Fuels Internet Predators?

  • Easy and anonymous access to children
  • Risky online behavior of youth
  • Virtual validation
  • Law enforcement challenges
  • East access to “a la carte” child pornography

The Internet has fueled the deviant sexual behavior of predators due to their easy access to both child pornography and to children. Both ignite the sexual appetite of pedophiles. À la carte child pornography depicting kids of all shapes, sizes, ethnicities, and ages (even toddlers and infants!), is only a mouse click away.

Direct access to unsuspecting children via e-mail, instant messaging, social networking sites, and chat rooms simplifies the sexual predator’s efforts to contact and groom children. Additionally, some teens are placing themselves at risk and willingly talk about sexual matters with online acquaintances.

“Predators are hiding behind the anonymity of the Internet to target kid, to entice kids online–to try to persuade them to meet them in the physical world.” —Ernie Allen, President & CEO, National Center for Missing and Exploited Children

What is the Profile of a Predator?

  • Blends into society
  • Is typically clean cut and outwardly law abiding
  • Is usually white, middle-aged or younger, and male
  • Uses position in society to throw off suspicion
  • Can rise to be a pillar of society while actively pursuing children
  • Often engages in activities involving children
  • Appears trusting to both parents and child

“Predators are in all professions.  Unfortunately, we have seen doctors, lawyers, law enforcement and clergy.  There is really no common trait.  In fact, many of them are drawn to those particular professions which give them access to children”  —Mary Beth Buchanan, U.S. District Attorney, Western Pennsylvania

Source: Internet Safety101

Grooming- What is grooming

  • Grooming is when someone builds an emotional connection with a child to gain their trust for the purposes of sexual abusesexual exploitation or trafficking.
  • Children and young people can be groomed online or in the real world, by a stranger or by someone they know – for example a family member, friend or professional.
  • Groomers may be male or female. They could be any age.
  • Many children and young people don’t understand that they have been groomed, or that what has happened is abuse.

How grooming happens – Grooming happens both online and in person. Groomers will hide their true intentions and may spend a long time gaining a child’s trust. They may also try to gain the trust of the whole family so they can be alone with the child. Groomers do this by:

  • pretending to be someone they are not, for example saying they are the same age online
  • offering advice or understanding
  • buying gifts
  • giving the child attention
  • using their professional position or reputation
  • taking them on trips, outings or holidays.

Using secrets and intimidation to control children

  • Once they have established trust, groomers will exploit the relationship by isolating the child from friends or family and making the child feel dependent on them. They will use any means of power or control to make a child believe they have no choice but to do what they want.
  • Groomers may introduce ‘secrets’ as a way to control or frighten the child. Sometimes they will blackmail the child, or make them feel ashamed or guilty, to stop them telling anyone about the abuse.

Online grooming

  • Groomers can use social media sites, instant messaging apps including teen dating apps, or online gaming platforms to connect with a young person or child.
  • They can spend time learning about a young person’s interests from their online profiles and then use this knowledge to help them build up a relationship.
  • It’s easy for groomers to hide their identity online – they may pretend to be a child and then chat and become ‘friends’ with children they are targeting.

Groomers may look for:

  • usernames or comments that are flirtatious or have a sexual meaning
  • public comments that suggest a child has low self-esteem or is vulnerable.

Groomers don’t always target a particular child. Sometimes they will send messages to hundreds of young people and wait to see who responds.  Groomers no longer need to meet children in real life to abuse them. Increasingly, groomers are sexually exploiting their victims by persuading them to take part in online sexual activity.

When sexual exploitation happens online, young people may be persuaded or forced, to:

  • send or post sexually explicit images of themselves
  • take part in sexual activities via a webcam or smartphone
  • have sexual conversations by text or online.

Abusers may threaten to send images, video or copies of conversations to the young person’s friends and family unless they take part in other sexual activity.  Images or videos may continue to be shared long after the sexual abuse has stopped.

Signs, symptoms, and effects – The signs of grooming aren’t always obvious. Groomers will also go to great lengths not to be identified.

Children may:

  • be very secretive, including about what they are doing online
  • have older boyfriends or girlfriends
  • go to unusual places to meet friends
  • have new things such as clothes or mobile phones that they can’t or won’t explain
  • have access to drugs and alcohol.

In older children, signs of grooming can easily be mistaken for ‘normal’ teenage behaviour, but you may notice unexplained changes in behaviour or personality or inappropriate sexual behaviour for their age.

Things you may notice – Grooming can affect any child. However, vulnerable children, such as those with disabilities, may be more at risk than others.  Groomers will exploit any vulnerability to increase the child or young person’s dependence on them, and reduce the likelihood of the child speaking out.

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Source: NSPCC

Trafficked children experience multiple forms of abuse and neglect

Physical, sexual and emotional violence are often used to control victims of trafficking. Children are also likely to be physically and emotionally neglected.  Child trafficking is child abuse. Children are recruited, moved or transported and then exploited, forced to work or sold for:

  • child sexual exploitation
  • benefit fraud
  • forced marriage
  • domestic servitude such as cleaning, childcare, cooking
  • forced labour in factories or agriculture
  • criminal activity such as pickpocketing, begging, transporting drugs, working on cannabis farms, selling pirated DVDs, bag theft.

Children are tricked, forced or persuaded to leave their homes

  • Traffickers use grooming techniques to gain the trust of a child, family or community.
  • They may threaten families, but this isn’t always the case – in fact, the use of violence and threats to recruit victims has decreased (Europol, 2011).
  • Traffickers may promise children education or persuade parents their child can have a better future in another place.
  • Sometimes families will be asked for payment towards the ‘service’ a trafficker is providing – for example sorting out the child’s documentation prior to travel or organizing transportation.
  • Traffickers make a profit from the money a child earns through exploitation, forced labour or crime. Often this is explained as a way for a child to pay off a debt they or their family ‘owe’ to the traffickers.
  • Although these are methods used by traffickers, coercion, violence or threats do not need to be proven in cases of child trafficking – a child cannot legally consent so child trafficking only requires evidence of movement and exploitation.

Traffickers work as a network of individuals or groups

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Source:  NSPCC

The Prostitution of Children

“Some of our most vulnerable children also face the threat of being victimized by commercial sexual exploitation. Runaways, throwaways, sexual assault victims, and neglected children can be recruited into a violent life of forced prostitution.”

– Deputy Attorney General James Cole speaks at the National Strategy Conference on Combating Child Exploitation in San Jose, California, May 17, 2011.

It is illegal to lure, transport, or obtain a child to engage in prostitution or any illegal sexual activity. Children involved in this form of commercial sexual exploitation are victims. Offenders of this crime, also commonly referred to as traffickers or pimps, recruit, entice, or capture children in order to sell them for sex in exchange for cash, goods, or in– kind favors. Under federal law, the prostitution of children is considered a form of human trafficking, also referred to as sex trafficking.   Sex trafficking is a lucrative industry, and criminals traffic children just as they would traffic drugs or other illegal substances.  This is a serious crime under federal law, and convicted offenders face serve statutory penalties. (For more information, see Citizen’s Guide to Federal Law on the Prostitution of Children).

International Sex Trafficking of Minors

Domestic Sex Trafficking of Minors

Child Victims of Prostitution

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Source: US DOJustice

How to spot child sexual exploitation

  • Media coverage of police investigations into the crimes of Jimmy Savile and other prominent figures have brought child sexual abuse and exploitation to public attention.
  • But while police tackle the problem, child sexual exploitation continues to happen every day. It’s important to understand what child sexual exploitation is and to be aware of warning signs that may indicate that a child you know is being exploited.

What is child sexual exploitation?

  • Child sexual exploitation is when people use the power they have over young people to sexually abuse them. Their power may result from a difference in age, gender, intellect, strength, money or other resources.
  • People often think of child sexual exploitation in terms of serious organised crime, but it also covers abuse within relationships and may involve informal exchanges of sex for something a child wants or needs, such as accommodation, gifts, cigarettes or attention. Some children are “groomed” through “boyfriends” who then force the child or young person into having sex with friends or associates.
  • Sexual abuse covers penetrative sexual acts, sexual touching, masturbation, and misuse of sexual images – for example on the internet or by mobile phone.
  • Part of the challenge of tackling child sexual exploitation is that the children and young people involved may not understand that non-consensual sex (sex they haven’t agreed to) or forced sex – including oral sex – is rape.

Which children are affected? – Any child or young person can be a victim of sexual exploitation, but children are believed to be at greater risk of being sexually exploited if they:

  • are homeless
  • have feelings of low self-esteem
  • have had a recent bereavement or loss
  • are in care
  • are a young carer

However, there are many more ways that a child may be vulnerable to sexual exploitation, and these are outlined in a report by the Office of the Children’s Commissioner.  The signs of child sexual exploitation may be hard to spot, particularly if a child is being threatened. To make sure that children are protected, it’s worth being aware of the signs that might suggest a child is being sexually exploited.

Signs of grooming and child sexual exploitation

  • going missing for periods of time or regularly returning home late
  • skipping school or being disruptive in class
  • appearing with unexplained gifts or possessions that can’t be accounted for
  • experiencing health problems that may indicate a sexually transmitted infection
  • having mood swings and changes in temperament
  • using drugs and alcohol
  • displaying inappropriate sexualised behaviours, such as over-familiarity with strangers, dressing in a sexualised manner or sending sexualised images by mobile phone (“sexting”)
  • they may also show signs of unexplained physical harm such as bruising and cigarette burns

Preventing abuse

  • helping children understand their bodies and sex in a way that is appropriate to their age
  • developing an open and trusting relationship so that they feel they can talk to you about anything
  • explaining the difference between safe secrets (such as a surprise party) and unsafe secrets (things that make them unhappy or uncomfortable)
  • teaching children to respect family boundaries such as privacy in sleeping, dressing, and bathing
  • teaching them self-respect and how to say no
  • supervising internet and television use

Who is sexually exploiting children?

What to do if you suspect a child is being sexually exploited

What health professionals can do to help exploited children

How common is child sexual exploitation?

Dealing with child sex abuse

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Source:  LiveWell

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